Tuesday, October 8, 2013

From College to Housewife



My graduating class and I at the Rockford Female Seminary
June 12, 1882

            What’s the point of having my degree if I’m going to sit at home and take care of children and ailing relatives?  If I had wanted to be a housewife I wouldn’t have gone to Rockford Female Seminary, much less been the valedictorian.  It took me a full year after graduating from Seminary in 1881 to even get my bachelor’s degree because Rockford wasn’t considered a college.  I want to put what I’ve learned to use, but all my family wants me to do is either marry and have kids or stay single and teach.  I feel very lost.  I wonder what Mother’s advice would be if she was still alive, if she would tell me to follow my heart and improve the world or tell me to settle down and find a suitor?
The school in 1881

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